Recently I have been observing a phenomenon that has been plaguing several people that I know; 3 different sets of people as a matter a fact. And if you are one of the following that is being plagued by this, well... Get ready cause I am about to piss in your cup of tea.
In my 26 years of life, one of the stupidest things I have ever encountered (and to be honest, personally hating to deal with) is this little fucking torture games they inflict on themselves when it comes to chasing the members of the opposite sex. And of course it involves the groin region, hormones, ego, and emotional misnomers, thus causing horrible consequences when all those factors combine. I have yet to discover the name of the phenomenon but I have observed the symptoms of it.
First symptom is blindness to all that is around you. People tell you one thing, they give you advice on what is good, and it all falls on deaf ears. People tell you that you are going about the chase all wrong but you don't listen. People laugh at you and tell you that you are foolish in what you are doing, but you don't listen. Lust overpowers you to the point where you are senseless. You are no longer in control but the focus of your lust is in control. Basically, that person has you by the balls and you happily smile, squat down and place them in his or her hands (Say goodbye to them, you will miss them).
The second symptom completely lack of understanding of personal emotions. Lust is mistaken for love. Sexual desire is mistaken for love. Attention (positive or negative) from the other person is mistaken for love. Every little god damned thing is mistaken for love. Partially this is cause by the first symptom.
Third symptom is disillusionment. The individual starts creating this ideal of the other person that is very different from the reality of that person. They create this image of the person that somehow coincedentally fits into their ideal image mold of their "perfect mate". And they mistakenly fall in love with the image they created of the individual they are pursuing instead of the true reality of the person. But the reality is that they fall waaaaay short of that idea. And they never realize this until something force them to see the real side of the person. That is when trouble starts in paradise.
Fourth and final symptom is complete and utter mental retardation in all aspects of life. Little obsticles turn into mountains. Friends becomes enemies and the process of shutting them out begins. Those that are in love with you or love you become cast offs from your own personal world. Fuck not seeing them, it's like they NEVER exsisted. Everything that you worked so hard far you start slowly throwing it all away. And then when the one you chase and want so much starts to distance themself from you, desperation sets in. You will say and do anything. All because you have you have damaged your life in pursuit of this person. Now you just can't face the idea that you turned your life to crap all because you put all your eggs in one basket and now you see that the basket is about to break on you.
For those of you who have fallen into this horrible self torture, I am truly sorry for you. Why? Cause you are missing out on so much of life.
What's is it that you are missing out you ask?
You are so blind that you can't even seen what is meant for you that is right in front of your fucking nose.
And to the two specific people that I wrote this with them in mind: I have heard enough of your shit to know that you two are just playing little fucking games with each other. Grow the fuck up, see the world and each other as it is, and stop fucking complaining to me about it. My life is perfect and I don't need to hear your stinking whinning about your lives when you refluse to listen to my advice.
Learn from example, stop chasing drama, and shut the fuck up.
You know who you are.
You know I am talking to you.
Fucktards.
Thursday, August 04, 2005
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